Thursday, January 17, 2013

The Most Famous Fake Girlfriend In History


                Lance Armstrong is one of the happiest men on this earth. The man who just admitted to using performance enhancing drugs to succeed as a cyclist could not have picked a better time to take a seat with Oprah for a chat about his past. Last afternoon the website Deadspin.com dropped a bomb on not just the sporting world but the world in general. Manti Te’o, the All-American linebacker from University of Notre Dame, was accused of being a part of a hoax in which he created a fake girlfriend, by the name of Lennay Kekua.
                Let us get this straight first: Manti Te’o is a decent football player, but fantastic would not be the proper adjective to use. He had a horrendous performance in the National Championship Game against Alabama where he looked like a chicken with its head cut off. Still, the man became a folk hero in this country. What he lacked in physical ability he made up in “courage” especially after he played in a game hours after his grandma and girlfriend died.
                Lost in this whole saga is that Te’o’s grandma did indeed die, unless that was made up too. What is for certain is that the girlfriend was not real. She did not exist. This is one hundred percent fact. The big question is if Manti Te’o holds any responsibility.
                I have never had a serious girlfriend before in my life, so I do not know what exactly goes on in a relationship. However, I have been the third wheel on numerous dates. I understand somewhat about loving relationships, which is how Te’o described his association with Kekua.
                When Lennay Kekua was “sick” with leukemia, Te’o did not go to see her. When Kekua was in a car accident, Te’o was not there holding her hand in the hospital room. Yes a long distance relationship is hard to do, but if someone I loved was struck with a terrible disease or was on their death bed, I would drop everything to be with them. Wouldn’t you?
                Te’o stated numerous times on Twitter how much he loved Lennay and how she was an inspiration to him. He was in love with a girl that he has since admitted did not exist. Now this would not have been that big of a deal if it the plot was just that Manti got tricked in a sick ploy by someone on the internet. But that is far from what actually happened.
                Details have been all over the internet on this drama. Everything from former Arizona Cardinals fullback Reagan Mauia stating he actually knows the alleged girl to allegations that another woman’s photo was used for the fake Twitter account.
                If there is a single take away from this story it is this: we live in a world that someone will do anything to get attention.
                The sporting world especially is about image. Look at Nyjer Morgan with his T-Plush alter ego. Countless athletes will try to win over the public by doing something, some kind of tactic to stand out. Te’o allegedly used the fake girlfriend route.
                 He went on countless national television shows to talk about the “love of his life”. His image is what he used to garnish the attention that put him in New York for the Heisman trophy ceremony.
                Was he a top linebacker in college football? Yes. Was he a top player regardless of position? No. Manti Te’o became a household name due to a hoax. Te’o is like that guy that walks around college campuses saying that he “hooked up with all the hotties” leading him to be  labeled as a player, but has never even come in close proximity to a female on the weekends.
                Te’o thrived off of a lie. It may not be a hundred percent clear if he was in on the scam, but he profited off it. In a way he is just like Lance Armstrong. He made a name for himself through an unethical method. And for that, he should be held accountable.

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